From Lama Surya Das’ book, Awakening to the Sacred -
“Ask yourself, what can I do today to change my karma tomrrow? Pick out one thing about your life that is less than ideal and start working on it. Karma comes in many forms . . . you can change the karma of your relationship with loved ones by acting differently.” (p. 102)
What is one type of karma I am unsatisfied with? What is one step towards changing how that type of karma is part of my life?

I have a post on karma, too, with quite a different take on it. You can check out my blog at http://www.phenomenaltruths.wordpress.com. Have a great week!
you can change the karma of your relationship with loved ones by acting differently.
If you are “acting” you aren’t really changing anything, as it is purely an attempt to manipulate Karma and that is impossible, Karma cannot be deceived.
Changing the way you act, the way you react, the way you think will have a wonderful effect on ‘Karma’ or the universe..whatever you like.